老家有个对女人极不公平的规矩,父母不在了,要回家给婆婆磕头
父母去世,要给婆家讨孝,再去娘家穿孝衣,地方风俗!https://nimg.ws.126.net/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdingyue.ws.126.net%2F2024%2F0712%2F27caa5d2j00sghose000td000hs005qg.jpg&thumbnail=660x2147483647&quality=80&type=jpg
这叫报丧,婆家要备礼呢,出殡当天女婿要带去的
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无法言语,那一刻的心情真的很是。。。。。。只有经历过的才知道
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以前回娘家探亲都要公婆同意 以前女人太苦了
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嫁出去的女儿,泼出去的水,父母亡要请求公婆同意自己去给父母守灵
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明人不说暗话。我不喜欢这习俗。
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总感觉这风俗是对女人的不公平,婆家有丧事,闺女就不用去娘家这样报丧[流泪][流泪][流泪]
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以前我们这里也是这样的,等事情完了,男的子孙还要到亲戚家磕头,叫谢孝,村里也要去谢孝,见人就磕头的,村里谢孝都是一大早上去,
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只有经历过的人才知道那种痛,亲人的离开是一生的潮湿
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古有外甥给舅舅下跪报丧!那是娘亲舅大
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我哭了,知道为什么吗?因为我也没有爸爸了[流泪][流泪][流泪]
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没了老人膝盖就不值钱了,见人都得磕头
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我们那边不用这样。电话就可以了。
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只有经历过的才懂内心的悲凉
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